Constructive criticism is an incredible asset. Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a friend….” Some of the most helpful advice and counsel I have ever received has come in the form of such “wounds.”

Yet, destructive criticism can be incredibly damaging to the work of God. (Perhaps this is part of the reason why there are so many verses in Scripture concerning our words and our tongues.) From time to time, growing ministries and faithful Christians will have detractors. Destructive criticism is a common issue for any leader trying to accomplish something of value. But being controlled by the opinions of others is a guaranteed way to miss God’s will for your life. One author said, “Anytime you step out to kill a giant, there will be criticism.” It’s true—ask David.

I’ve learned that, as with all communication, it is wise to “consider the source” as I determine what level of influence a particular criticism should have in my life. It is sad to realize that in a day when Christians are hated worldwide, much of the criticism Christians receive is from other Christians.

Over the years, the following questions have helped me to assess and filter criticism: (more…)

I’m excited about the new resources from Striving Together Publications. It is a privilege to partner with pastors and churches around the world in making biblical and Christ-honoring resources for Christian growth available.

We’ve had several new resources released over the past few weeks, and I just wanted to take a moment to briefly highlight some of them. You can click on each title below for more information.

In Desert Places—This is my newest book, and it highlights the wonders God performs in unlikely places with unlikely people. Drawing from Bible accounts of what God did in desert places as well as the true stories of God’s miraculous work in lives in our desert here at Lancaster Baptist Church, this book encourages us to remember the greatness of God’s grace.

The Choice is Yours—I’m thankful Terrie has written this book for ladies, encouraging them to live with purpose and joy as they cultivate a walk with God. It will be encouraging and helpful for every Christian lady of any age and any level of Christian maturity. (And if my experience is an indicator, it’s a great read for pastors as well!) (more…)